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Advice is seldom welcome; and those who want it the most always like it the least. Patience is a most necessary quality for business; many a man would rather you heard his story than grant his request. Without some dissimulation no business can be carried on at all. Men are much more unwilling to have their weaknesses and their imperfections known than their crimes. When a man is once in fashion, all he does is right. Few men are of one plain, decided colour, most are mixed, shaded, and blended; and vary as much, from different situations as changeable silks do from different lights. We are, in truth, more than a half of what we are by imitation. Pocket all your knowledge with your watch and never pull it out in company unless desired. If you would convince others, seem open to conviction yourself. Pleasure is a reciprocal; no one feels it who does not at the same time give it. To be pleased, one must please. Pleasure is a reciprocal; no one feels it who does not at the same time give it. To be pleased, one must please. Distrust all those who love you extremely upon a very slight acquaintance and without any viable reason. Know the true value of time; snatch, seize, and enjoy every moment of it. No idleness, no laziness, no procrastination: never put off till tomorrow what you can do today. There is time enough for everything in the course of the day if you do but one thing at once; but there is not time enough in the year if you will do two things at a time. I recommend you to take care of the minutes, for the hours will take care of themselves. The less one has to do, the less time one finds to do it in. One yawns, one procrastinates, one can do it when one will, and, therefore, one seldom does it at all; whereas those who have a great deal of business must buckle to it; and then they always find time enough to do it. Firmness of purpose is one of the most necessary sinews of character and one of the best instruments of success. Without it, genius wastes its efforts in a maze of inconsistencies. Aim at perfection in everything, though in most things it is unattainable. However they who aim at it, and persevere, will come much nearer to it than those whose laziness and despondency make them give it up as unattainable. Firmness of purpose is one of the most necessary sinews of character, and one of the best instruments of success. Without it, genius wastes its efforts in a maze of inconsistencies. When one is learning, one should not think of play; and when one is at play, one should not think of learning. There is time enough for everything in the course of the day if you do but one thing at once; but there is not time enough in the year if you will do two things at a time. I recommend you to take care of the minutes, for the hours will take care of themselves. There is time enough for everything in the course of the day if you do but one thing once; but there is not time enough in the year if you will do two things at a time. Polished brass will pass upon more people than rough gold. You must look into people as well as at them. Never hold any one by the button or the hand in order to be heard out; for if people are unwilling to hear you, you had better hold your tongue than them. Whatever is worth doing at all is worth doing well. The manner of your speaking is full as important as the matter, as more people have ears to be tickled than understandings to judge. Idleness is the holiday of fools. Wear your learning like your watch, in a private pocket; and do not pull it out and strike it, merely to show that you have one. Manners must adorn knowledge and smooth its way through the world. Modesty is the only sure bait when you angle for praise. I recommend you to take care of the minutes, for the hours will take care of themselves. Style is the dress of thoughts. I recommend you to take care of the minutes, for the hours will take care of themselves. Know the true value of time; snatch, seize, and enjoy every moment of it. No idleness, no laziness, no procrastination: never put off till tomorrow what you can do today. |