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Men achieve a certain greatness unawares, when working to another aim. The measure of a master is his success in bringing all men round to his opinion 20 years later. The world is all gates, all opportunities, strings of tension waiting to be struck. The reward of a thing well done, is to have done it. Play out the game, act well your part, and if the gods have blundered, we will not. It is time to be old, To take in sail. A good indignation brings out all one's powers. The flowering of geometry. When we quarrel, how we wish we had been blameless. Artists must be sacrificed to their art. Like bees, they must put their lives into the sting they give. Perpetual modernness is the measure of merit in every work of art. Beauty without expression tires. Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not. We ascribe beauty to that which is simple; which has no superfluous parts; which exactly answers its ends. Neither is a dictionary a bad book to read. There is no cant in it, no excess of explanation, and it is full of suggestions, the raw material of possible poems and histories. Tis the good reader that makes the good book. The days come and go like muffled and veiled figures sent from a distant friendly party, but they say nothing, and if we do not use the gifts they bring, they carry them as silently away. Good breeding, a union of kindness and independence. Character is that which can do without success. Cities force growth and make men talkative and entertaining, but they make them artificial. The end of the human race will be that it will eventually die of civilization. An institution is the lengthening shadow of one man. A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen and philosophers and divines. With consistency a great soul has simply nothing to do. He may as well concern himself with his shadow on the wall. Speak what you think now in hard words and tomorrow speak what tomorrow thinks in hard words again, though it contradict everything you said today. A great part of courage is the courage of having done the thing before. The creation of a thousand forests is in one acorn. A cynic can chill and dishearten with a single word. The question is whether suicide is the way out, or the way in. Proportion is almost impossible to human beings. There is no one who does not exaggerate. I pay the School Master, but 'tis the school boys that educate my son. The things taught in schools are not an education but the means of an education. I find the Englishman to be him of all men who stands firmest in his shoes. Do not be too timid and squeamish about your actions. All life is an experience. I have heard with admiring submission the experience of the lady who declared that the sense of being well-dressed gives a feeling of inward tranquility, which religion is powerless to bestow. Whatever limits us we call Fate. It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them. A friend is one before whom I may think aloud. To believe your own thought, to believe that what is true for you in your private heart is true for all men - that is genius. In every work of genius we recognize our own rejected thoughts; they come back to us with a certain alienated majesty. Accept the place the divine providence has found for you, the society of your contemporaries, the connection of events. God enters by a private door into every individual. In nature, nothing can be given, all things are sold. The meaning of good and bad, of better and worse, is simply helping or hurting. I hate the giving of the hand unless the whole man accompanies it. The only gift is a portion of thyself. Take egotism out, and you would castrate the benefactor. A great man stands on God. A small man stands on a great man. Calmness is always Godlike. A man finds room in a few square inches of his face for the traits of all his ancestors; for the expression of all his history, and his wants. Every hero becomes a bore at last. A hero is no braver than an ordinary man, but he is brave five minutes longer. All history is but the lengthened shadow of a great man. A man builds a fine house; and now he has a master, and a task for life is to furnish, watch, show it, and keep it in repair the rest of his life. Man is physically as well as metaphysically a thing of shreds and patches, borrowed unequally from good and bad ancestors, and a misfit from the start. The cultivated man, wise to know and bold to perform, is the end to which nature works. We fancy men are individuals; so are pumpkins; but every pumpkin in the field goes through every point of pumpkin history. Whosoever would be a man must be a non-conformist. The louder he talked of his honour, the faster we counted our spoons. Outside, among your fellows, among strangers, you must preserve appearances, 100 things you cannot do; but inside, the terrible freedom! When the man is at home, his standing in society is well known and quietly taken; but when he is abroad, it is problematical, and is dependent on the success of his manners. Make yourself necessary to somebody. Extremes meet, and there is no better example than the naughtiness of humility. If I cannot brag of knowing something, then I brag of not knowing it, at any rate, brag. The sky is the daily bread of the eyes. Every man is a borrower and a mimic; life is theatrical and literature a quotation. If you shoot at a king you must kill him. In the morning a man walks with his whole body; in the evening, only with his legs. Life consists in what a man is thinking of all day. The whole of what we know is a system of compensations. Each suffering is rewarded; each sacrifice is made up; every debt is paid. I can find my biography in every fable that I read. It has come to be practically a sort of rule in literature that a man, having once shown himself capable of original writing, is entitled thenceforth to steal from the writings of others at discretion. A person seldom falls sick but the bystanders are animated with a faint hope that he will die. Men are what their mothers made them. Shall we judge a country by the majority, or by the minority? By the minority, surely. The sky is the daily bread of the eyes. Nature is reckless of the individual. When she has points to carry, she carries them My evening visitors, if they cannot see the clock, should find the time in my face. The difference between landscape and landscape is small, but there's a great difference in the beholders. The eyes indicate the antiquity of the soul. People only see what they are prepared to see. Can anything be so elegant as to have few wants, and to serve them one's self? The peace of the man who has foresworn the use of the bullet seems to me not quite peace, but a canting impotence. The secret of ugliness consists not in irregularity, but in being uninteresting. Poetry must be as new as foam, and as old as the rock. Good manners are made up of petty sacrifices. There is always a best way of doing everything, if it be only to boil an egg. Manners are the happy ways of doing things. There is a certain satisfaction in coming down to the lowest ground of politics, for then we get rid of cant and hypocrisy. A good indignation brings out all one's powers. The best effect of fine persons is felt after we have left their presence. Some natures are too good to be spoiled by praise. Every reform was once a private opinion, and when it shall be a private opinion again, it will solve the problem of the age. The merit claimed for the Anglican Church is that, if you let it alone, it will let you alone. There is a crack in everything God has made. No sensible person ever made an apology. Outside, among your fellows, among strangers, you must preserve appearances, a hundred things you cannot do; but inside, the terrible freedom! Sanity is very rare; every man almost, and every woman, has a dash of madness. Self-command is the main elegance. Sleep takes off the costume of circumstance, arms us with terrible freedom, so that every will rushes to deed. A skillful man reads his dreams for his self-knowledge; yet not the details, but the quality. What part does he play in them - a cheerful, manly part, or a poor, drivelling part? However monstrous and grotesque their apparitions, they have a substantial truth. Every man is a consumer and ought to be a producer. We never touch but at points. Sorrow makes us all children again. There are some men above grief and some men below it. All the great speakers were bad speakers at first. Speak what you think today in words as hard as cannon balls, and tomorrow speak what tomorrow thinks in hard words again, though it contradict everything you said today. What is success? To laugh often and much; To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; To appreciate beauty; To find the best in others; To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived; That is to have succeeded. No man should travel until he has learned the language of the country he visits, otherwise he voluntarily makes himself a great baby - so helpless and ridiculous. Make yourself necessary to somebody. God offers to every mind its choice between truth and repose. Take which you please; you can never have both. Every vice is only an exaggeration of a necessary and virtuous function. The first wealth is health. A wise man always throws himself on the side of his assailants. It is more his interests than it is theirs to find his weak point. A woman's strength is the irresistible might of weakness. It is the privilege of any human work which is well done to invest the doer with a certain haughtiness. He can well afford not to conciliate, whose faithful work will answer for him. We are as much informed of a writer's genius by what he selects as by what he originates. It makes a great difference in the force of a sentence whether a man be behind it or no. There is a time in every man's education when he arrives at the conviction that envy is ignorance; that imitation is suicide; that he must take himself for better, for worse as his portion. O Lord! Unhappy is the man whom man can make unhappy. Nothing can bring you peace but yourself. Nothing can bring you peace but yourself. Discontent is want of self-reliance; it is infirmity of will. Five great enemies to peace inhabit us: avarice, ambition, envy, anger and pride. If those enemies were to be banished, we should infallibly enjoy perpetual peace. To fill the hour, and leave no crevice ... that is happiness. The high prize of life, the crowning fortune of man, is to be born with a bias to some pursuit which finds him in employment and happiness. A man is relieved and gay when he has put his heart into his work and done his best. The happiest man is he who learns from nature the lesson of worship. No man can have society upon his own terms. Nature is what you may do. There is much you may not do. Nature magically suits a man to his fortunes, by making them the fruit of his character. When I first open my eyes upon the morning meadows and look out upon the beautiful world, I thank God I am alive. For everything you have missed, you have gained something else. Want is a growing giant whom the coat of Have was never large enough to cover. There are three wants which can never be satisfied: that of the rich, who want something more; that of the sick, who want something different; and that of the traveler, who says, "Anywhere but here." Men run away to other countries because they are not good in their own, and run back to their own because they pass for nothing in the new places. Right Now Is the Time to Be Kind You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late. I hate the giving of the hand unless the whole man accompanies it. The only gift is a portion of thyself. Make yourself necessary to somebody. We take care of our health, we lay up money, we make our roof tight and our clothing sufficient, but who provides wisely that he shall not be wanting in the best property of all-friends. The only way to have a friend is to be one. No man can have society upon his own terms. If he seeks it, he must serve it too. The condition which high friendship demands is the ability to do without it. The secret of success in society is a certain heartiness and sympathy. Friendship requires more time than poor busy men can usually command. Go oft to the house of thy friend, for weeds choke the unused path. A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him, I may think aloud. It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them. A man's growth is seen in the successive choirs of his friends. Every man passes his life in the search after friendship. How casually and unobservedly we make all our most valued acquaintances. A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature. God enters by a private door into every individual. To Be is to live with God. All I have seen teaches me to trust the Creator for all I have not seen. A believer, a mind whose faith is consciousness, is never disturbed because other persons do not yet see the fact which he sees. The disease with which the human mind now labors is want of faith. The wise man in the storm prays God not for safety from danger, but for deliverance from fear. Though I am weak, yet God, when prayed, Cannot withhold his conquering aid. Prayer is the contemplation of the facts of life from the highest point of view. It is doubtless a vice to turn one's eyes inward too much, but I am my own comedy and tragedy. Accept the place the divine providence has found for you. Self-command is the main elegance. Self-trust is the first secret of success. Discontent is want of self-discipline; it is infirmity of will. Nothing can bring you peace but yourself. To be simple is to be great. It is proof of high culture to say the greatest matters in the simplest way. Who loses a day loses life. Write it on your heart that every day is the best day in the year. The days come and go like muffled and veiled figures sent from a distant friendly party, but they say nothing, and if we do not use the gifts they bring, they carry them as silently away. He is only rich who owns the day. There is no king, rich man, fairy, or demon who possesses such power as that. Guard well your spare moments. They are like uncut diamonds. Discard them and their value will never be known. Improve them and they will become the brightest gems in a useful life. To fill the hour, that is happiness; to fill the hour, and leave no crevice for a repentance or an approval. He has not learned the first lesson of life who does not every day surmount a fear. A day is a miniature eternity. The surest poison is time. This time, like all times, is a very good one if we but know what to do with it. Why should we grope among the dry bones of the past, or put the living generation into masquerade out of its faded wardrobe? The present is an edifice which God cannot rebuild. This time, like all times, is a very good one if we but know what to do with it. With the past, I have nothing to do; nor with the future. I live now. We can see well into the past; we can guess shrewdly in to the future; but that which is rolled up and muffled in impenetrable folds is today. Live wastes itself while we are preparing to live. To finish the moment, to find the journey's end in every step of the road, to live the greatest number of good hours, is wisdom. God had infinite time to give us.... He cut it up into a near succession of new mornings, and, with each, therefore, a new idea, new inventions, and new applications. If a man carefully examines his thoughts he will be surprised to find how much he lives in the future. His well-being is always ahead. Write it on your heart that every day is the best day in the year. We look wishfully to emergencies, to eventful, revolutionary times ... and think how easy to have taken our part when the drum was rolling and the house was burning over our heads. They sicken of the calm that know the storm. We do not live an equal life, but one of contrasts and patchwork; now a little joy, then a sorrow, now a sin, then a generous or brave action. Adopt the pace of nature, her secret is patience. Patience and fortitude conquer all things. People only see what they are prepared to see. A man is what he thinks about all day long. The soul contains the event that shall befall it, for the event is only the actualization of its thoughts, and what we pray to ourselves for is always granted. Great men are they who see that the spiritual is stronger than any material force, that thoughts rule the world. As a man thinketh, so is he, and as a man chooseth, so is he. There are people who have an appetite for grief; pleasure is not strong enough and they crave pain. They have mithridatic stomachs which must be fed on poisoned bread, natures so doomed that no prosperity can sooth their ragged and dishevelled desolation. A man is a method, a progressive arrangement; a selecting principle, gathering his like unto him wherever he goes. What you are comes to you. Trust men and they will be true to you; treat them greatly and they will show themselves great. Skill to do comes of doing. Passion, though a bad regulator, is a powerful spring. The world belongs to the energetic. Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm. Vigor is contagious, and whatever makes us either think or feel strongly adds to our power and enlarges our field of action. A feeble man can see the farms that are fenced and tilled, the houses that are built. The strong man sees the possible houses and farms. His eye makes estates as fast as the sun breeds clouds. When there is no vision, people perish. We change, whether we like it or not. 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