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Marcel Proust Quotes and Quotations
Everything great in the world comes from neurotics. They alone have founded our religions, and composed our masterpieces. Never will the world know all it owes to them, nor all they have suffered to enrich us. Until I saw Chardin's painting, I never realized how much beauty lay around me in my parents' house, in the half-cleared table, in the corner of a tablecloth left awry, in the knife beside the empty oyster shell. There are perhaps no days of our childhood we lived so fully as those we believe we left without having lived them: those we spent with a favourite book. People wish to learn to swim and at the same time to keep one foot on the ground. The opinions which we hold of one another, our relations with friends and kinsfolk are in no sense permanent, save in appearance, but are as eternally fluid as the sea itself. At the heart of our friendly or purely social relations, there lurks a hostility momentarily cured but recurring in fits and starts. Let us leave pretty women to men without imagination. There can be no peace of mind in love, since the advantage one has secured is never anything but a fresh starting-point for further desires. That which we remember of our conduct is ignored by our closest neighbour; but that which we have forgotten having said, or even what we never said, will cause laughter even into the next world. The time which we have at our disposal every day is elastic; the passions that we feel expand it, those that we inspire contract it; and habit fills up the rest. The time which we have at our disposal every day is elastic; the passions that we feel expand it, those that we inspire contract it; and habit fills up what remains. The past not merely is not fugitive, it remains present. We do not succeed in changing things according to our desire, but gradually our desire changes. All our final resolutions are made in a state of mind which is not going to last. It is always thus, impaled by a state of mind which is destined not to last, that we make our irrevocable decisions. People can have many different kinds of pleasure. The real one is that for which they will forsake the others. We are healed of a suffering only by experiencing it to the full. It is grief that develops the powers of the mind. There can be no peace of mind in love, since the advantage one has secured is never anything by a fresh starting-point for further desires. We are healed of a suffering only by experiencing it to the full. Everything great in the world comes from neurotics. They alone have founded our religions, and composed our masterpieces. Never will the world know all it owes to them, nor all they have suffered to enrich us. The opinions which we hold of one another, our relations with friends and kinsfolk are in no sense permanent, save in appearance, but are as eternally fluid as the sea itself. |