The clearest sign of wisdom is continued cheerfulness. A man must live in the world and make the best of it, such as it is. Greatness of soul consists not so much in soaring high and in pressing forward, as in knowing how to adapt and limit oneself. We are all of us richer than we think we are. Diogenes was asked what wine he liked best, and he answered, "Somebody else's." He who does not live in some degree for others, hardly lives for himself. If you press me to say why I loved him, I can say no more than because he was he, and I was I. The Ancient Mariner said to Neptune during a great storm, "O God, you will save me if you wish, but I am going to go on holding my tiller straight." I care not so much what I am to others as what I am to myself. I will be rich by myself, and not by borrowing. Of all our infirmities, the most savage is to despise our being. Not being able to govern events, I govern myself. The Ancient Mariner said to Neptune during a great storm, "O God, you will save me if you wish, but I am going to go on holding my tiller straight." The value of life lies not in the length of days, but in the use we make of them; a man may live long yet live very little. We undo ourselves by impatience. Misfortunes have their life and their limits, their sickness and their health. He who fears he shall suffer, already suffers what he fears. Oh, what a valiant faculty is hope. Obstinacy and heat in sticking to one's opinions is the surest proof of stupidity. Is there anything so cocksure, so immovable, so disdainful, so contemplative, so solemn and serious as an ass? The greatest thing in the world is to know how to be one's own self Fear, desire, hope still push us on toward the future. There is no greater enemy to those who would please than expectation. The great and glorious masterpiece of man is to know how to live to purpose. The soul that has no established aim loses itself. The great and glorious masterpiece of man is how to live with a purpose. No wind serves him who addresses his voyage to no certain port. The thing I fear most is fear. He who fears he shall suffer already suffers what he fears. My life has been full of terrible misfortunes, most of which never happened. Valor is stability, not of legs and arms, but of courage and the soul. Cowardice is the mother of cruelty. Desire and hope will push us on toward the future. There are defeats more triumphant than victories. I walk firmer and more secure up hill than down. Riches, like glory or health, have no more beauty or pleasure than their possessor is pleased to lend them. Riches, like glory or health, have no more beauty or pleasure than their possessor is pleased to lend them. A good marriage would be between a blind wife and a deaf husband. |