There are three modes of bearing the ills of life: by indifference, by philosophy and by religion. Ennui has made more gamblers than avarice, more drunkards than thirst, and perhaps as many suicides as despair. If you would be known, and not know, vegetate in a village; if you would know and not be known, live in a city. Body and mind, like man and wife, do not always agree to die together. Pedantry crams our heads with learned lumber and takes out brains to make room for it. Never join with your friend when he abuses his horse or his wife unless the one is to be sold, and the other to be buried. A house may draw visitors, but it is the possessor alone that can detain them. We owe almost all our knowledge not to those who have agreed, but to those who have differed. If you cannot inspire a woman with love of you, fill her above the brim with love of herself; all that runs over will be yours. I have found by experience that they who have spent all their lives in cities, improve their talents but impair their virtues; and strengthen their minds but weaken their morals. Mystery is not profoundness. Applause is the spur of noble minds, the end and aim of weak ones. We hate some persons because we do not know them; and will not know them because we hate them. There is a paradox in pride: it makes some men ridiculous, but prevents others from becoming so. The three great apostles of practical atheism, that make converts without persecuting and retain them without preaching are Wealth, Health and Power. Men will wrangle for religion, write for it, fight for it, die for it, anything but live for it. To dare to live alone is the rarest courage; since there are many who had rather meet their bitterest enemy in the field, than their own hearts in their closet. Pure truth, like pure gold, has been found unfit for circulation because men have discovered that it is far more convenient to adulterate the truth than to refine themselves. Eloquence is the language of nature, and cannot be learned in the schools; but rhetoric is the creature of art, which he who feels least will most excel in. A windmill is eternally at work to accomplish one end, although it shifts with every variation of the weather cock, and assumes 10 different positions in a day. The firmest friendships have been formed in mutual adversity, as iron is most strongly united by the fiercest flame. Happiness ... leads none of us by the same route. To be obliged to beg our daily happiness from others bespeaks a more lamentable poverty than that of him who begs his daily bread. The man of pleasure, by a vain attempt to be more happy than any man can be, is often more miserable than most men. True contentment depends not upon what we have; a tub was large enough for Diogenes, but a world was too little for Alexander. Did universal charity prevail, earth would be a heaven, and hell a fable. He that will not permit his wealth to do any good for others ... cuts himself off from the truest pleasure here and the highest happiness later. True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost. Most of our misfortunes are comments of our friends upon them. To be obliged to beg our daily happiness from others bespeaks a more lamentable poverty than that of him who begs his daily bread. Much may be done in those little shreds and patches of time which every day produces, and which most men throw away. Men spend their lives in anticipation, in determining to be vastly happy at some period when they have time. But the present time has one advantage over every other-it is our own.... We may lay in a stock of pleasures, as we would lay in a stock of wine; but if we defer the tasting of them too long, we shall find that both are soured by age. Ennui has made more gamblers than avarice, more drunkards than thirst, and perhaps as many suicides as despair. It is good to act as if. It is even better to grow to the point where it is no longer an act. He that has energy enough to root out a vice should go further, and try to plant a virtue in its place. Human foresight often leaves its proudest possessor only a choice of evils. We are sure to be losers when we quarrel with ourselves; it is civil war. Happiness, that grand mistress of the ceremonies in the dance of life, impels us through all its mazes and meanderings, but leads none of us by the same route. Applause is the spur of noble minds, the end and aim of weak ones. A windmill is eternally at work to accomplish one end, although it shifts with every variation of the weathercock, and assumes ten different positions in a day. Physical courage, which despises all danger, will make a man brave in one way; and moral courage, which despises all opinion, will make a man brave in another. The former would seem most necessary for the camp; the latter for the council; but to constitute a great man, both are necessary. That cowardice is incorrigible which the love of power cannot overcome. Courage is generosity of the highest order, for the brave are prodigal of the most precious things. Success seems to be that which forms the distinction between confidence and conceit. He that has cut the claws of the lion will not feel quite secure until he has also drawn his teeth. Times of general calamity and confusion have ever been productive of the greatest minds. The purest ore is produced from the hottest furnace, and the brightest thunderbolt is elicited from the darkest storms. Times of general calamity and confusion have ever been productive of the greatest minds. The purist ore is produced from the hottest furnace, and the brightest thunderbolt is elicited from the darkest storms. There are three modes of bearing the ills of life: by indifference, by philosophy, and by religion. He that has never suffered extreme adversity knows not the full extent of his own depravation. Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship—never. Wealth ... is a relative thing since he that has little and wants less is richer than he that has much but wants more. |