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Bigamy is having one husband too many. Monogamy is the same. Everyone has a talent. What is rare is the courage to follow the talent to the dark places where it leads. I have accepted fear as a part of life -specifically the fear of change ... I have gone ahead despite the pounding in the heart that says: turn back. ... Jealousy is all the fun you think they had. I know some good marriages-marriages where both people are just trying to get through their days by helping each other, being good to each other. There are no atheists on turbulent airplanes. Take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame. If, every day, I dare to remember that I am here on loan, that this house, this hillside, these minutes are all leased to me, not given, I will never despair. I have accepted fear as a part of life-specifically the fear of change. ... I have gone ahead despite the pounding in the heart that says: turn back. ... Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't. I write lustily and humorously. It isn't calculated; it's the way I think. I've invented a writing style that expresses who I am. I have accepted fear as a part of life-specifically the fear of change. ... I have gone ahead despite the pounding in the heart that says: turn back.... I have not ceased being fearful, but I have ceased to let fear control me. I was afraid to write Fear of Flying; ergo, I had to write it. I have lived my life according to this principle: If I'm afraid of it, then I must do it. It takes courage to lead a life. Any life. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more. Everyone has a talent. What is rare is the courage to follow that talent to the dark place where it leads. It takes courage to lead a life. Any life. I went for years not finishing anything. Because, of course, when you finish something you can be judged.... I had poems which were rewritten so many times I suspect it was just a way of avoiding sending them out. I have accepted fear as a part of life-specifically the fear of change. ... I have gone ahead despite the pounding in the heart that says: turn back. ... Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. . . . It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk everything, you risk even more. The soul is awakened through service. Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't. There are no atheists on turbulent airplanes. |